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Mom Deported; Fairfield County Family Feels 'Ripped Apart'

Rony Molina, right, with sons, Ronald, 8, center, and Alex, 11, look sadly at photo of wife and mom, Sandra, who was deported in November 2010 to her hometown in Guatemala. Photo Credit: Richard Weizel
Evelin Molina, 19, says being separated from her deported mother has been "devastating" after being apart most of her life. She's still hoping something can be done to bring her mom back to the United States. Photo Credit: Richard Weizel
Rony Molina stands in front of equipment used in his Every Season Landscaping business. Molina says working long days and taking care of his three kids is tough without his wife, who was deported. Photo Credit: Richard Weizel
Alex Molina,11, left, tosses a football to his brother, Ronald, 8, in front of their Stamford home. The brothers were born in the United States and want to stay here. But they also miss their mom. Alex says, "They have to let her come home. It's not fair." Photo Credit: Richard Weizel

FAIRFIELD COUNTY, Conn. – Ronald Molina, 8, his 11-year-old brother Alex and 19-year-old-sister Evelin say they cry quietly every day in their Stamford home while looking at a photograph of their mother.

In the photo, the dark-haired woman with downcast eyes looks back at them with as much sadness as is felt by the family she was forced to leave. Her children, along with her husband, Rony Molina, are U.S. citizens. But Sandra Payes-Chacon was detained and deported in 2010 while in her native Guatemala trying to obtain a green card.

Now, the 35-year-old who suffers from depression and anxiety is banned from returning to the United States for 10 years.

Advocates and attorneys for immigration reform say a national program called Secure Communities, which was launched in Fairfield County last year and recently expanded to cover the entire state, will make stories such as this one far more common. 

“Families are being torn apart and with expansion of the Secure Communities program we are going to see much more of this - lives ruined because of technicalities and overzealous immigration police enforcement,” said Alex Meyerovich, an immigration attorney at M.C. Law Group LLP in Bridgeport and Norwalk.

Meyerovich, who represents the Molina family, said, “Many of my clients are scared of the local police, who under the guise of these programs, arrest them for federal Immigration Customs Enforcement police. When they run a fingerprints check and discover a person is in the country illegally, that’s it. They are deported.”

Payes-Chacon, however, was not deported under the Secure Communities program. She made the mistake of taking bad advice from a former adviser and returned to her homeland after crossing the border illegally. But Meyerovich said many people. including his clients, are afraid of the program.

“It’s one more piece of ammunition added to the completely random and arbitrary process used to deport (illegal) immigrants,” he said. 

Rony Molina, 43, who also made a dangerous and costly three-day trek crossing the desert from Mexico in 1999, sat this week at a kitchen table in his small but immaculate Cold Spring Road home, shaking his head and tearing up as he described what it’s like to be separated from his wife.

The couple met in Connecticut but did not know each other despite growing up in the same rural community outside Guatemala City.

“There are no words to describe our suffering,” said Molina, owner of Every Season Landscaping and Rony’s Painting. “I take care of the children and do everything I can for them, but I have a full-time business to run and they are alone after school.”

Human traffickers called coyotes can charge up to $20,000 to sneak immigrants into the county. Both Molina and his future wife came to America to escape the daily gang violence and lack of work in their homeland, he said. His two sons were born here and he adopted their half-sister Evelin, who came to the United States a few years ago.

“My boys need their mother. This is not a way to live,” Rony Molina said. The brothers visit their mother during summer vacation, and their father tries to fly there every few months for about a week.

“It’s sad knowing when I come home from school she won’t be here,” said Alex, an eighth-grader at Cloonan Middle School.

Evelin Molina, a senior at Westhill High School, said she was “devastated” by her mother’s deportation.

“My whole life I lived with my grandmother, but looked forward to being with my mother and my brothers,” she said. “We were together for a couple of years, then this happened. It’s a living nightmare.”

Payes-Chacon requested humanitarian parole because of the physical and emotional illnesses she suffers. It was denied in September by the Department of Homeland Security.

“Parole is an extraordinary measure used sparingly and only in urgent and emergency circumstances,” Gina Holland, chief of law enforcement for Homeland Security investigations, said in a Sept. 15 letter denying the application.

Now, Rony Molina will have to make what he calls “an impossible decision."

“Either we stay here and wait 10 years to be reunited as a family,” he said. “Or we go back and be together, but have no future and expose my kids to the kind of gang violence that resulted in their uncle being kidnapped last year and held for a $25,000 ransom. It’s a terrible decision to have to make.” 

This is the first in a two-part series about the plight of illegal immigrants in Fairfield County and increased efforts to deport them. Next: Why officials are concerned the expansion of the Secure Communities program across Connecticut may result in increased crime and violence.

Comments (9)

farmore:

you all sound pretty heartless. try to remember that we all came here from somewhere else [unless you're a "native" american] under less than ideal conditions.

DavidA:

farmore - equating native tribes with a formalized government is absurd. These people made decisions knowing the possible consequences. They, and regrettably their kids, have to live with them. If that sounds heartless so be it. What is heartless is to expect hardworking taxpaying legal citizens (native born or not) see their schools, hospitals, public services etc. impacted in such a negative way and to expect that they should pay not only their share but the share for those that come illegally pay no income taxes. If this influx was coming from China or Russia it would be an invasion.

Legal immigration, no matter where the person originates from is fine. Illegal immigration is not, and just because one comes across the southern border doesn't change that.

DavidA:

According to the article the husband is not a citizen and also came across the border illegally.

sema43:

The idea of having children in this country and the mother not being an American citizen is a crime that the mother committed knowingly. Lucky the husband is a citizen otherwise the children would have been deported along with her. Maybe if they want their mother they should move.

DavidA:

To give the complete story the reporter should ask to see his tax returns from 1999 to the present, the tax returns for his business and for all employees. Only then will we know if this family not only entered illegally but we'll also know if they continued to benefit without contributing like everyone else is required to do. We are either a nation of laws or we are not.

rickaroo:

I feel sorry for the family but last I look, I have no right to simply go live in France. It's too bad really because I'm educated, hard working, have a nice wife and two great kids. I like red wine and I hear the schools in France are great. Plus, I'd have the entire month of August off. We should all move to France (illegally).

ConcernedAmerican:

Ken, are you a landscaper who toils in the hot sun or cold 12 hours per day and this man took your job away from you? It seems to me that many of these hardworking immigrants work in occupations that no American wants to do simply to provide a safe home for their family. And unless you are Native American, I assume at one point your family came to the US from another country seeking a better life.

soch21:

i agree Ken. If i break the law, i would go to jail and miss my family. there are plenty of people who come to this country the right way. have her fill out the proper paperwork and come back to her family.

Ken P Jr:

Too bad, the law is the law and they ought to be prosecuting the father if he snuck in in 1999. instead of worrying about these people we should be thinking of the Americans with no work. I doubt he has a a single American on his payroll but don't doubt he has other illegals on it. This is one reason our country and state are having such hard times. Go home if you want the kids to be with mom. Fix up your own country instead of helping kill mine. It's a shame what their families go thru, but it's no excuse.

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